1,098 Abibisika (Black Gold) Points

Rank: Unranked Obibini

Fe c me & com live wid me a 2 diffrant tings( to see me & come & live with me are two different things) meaning at times people u may meet or be with or trying to know & learn about for romantic purposes ( in this case) may not be all what they are to be & when with them in other spaces are quite different from what one thinks they are. Majority of us have inherited certain traumas based on our past & if not actively dealing with our inner issues they can cause problems later on. Many can mask & hide their trauma even from childhood but best know that unresolved trauma from childhood or recent will most definitely surface at some point in our present adult life & cause serious problems. Healing is a journey not a destination & can’t be rushed. To recognize or identify certain unhealthy traits & behaviors & trying to seek the proper care that is so necessary, is a great start in itself & be proud of ourselves for trying 🙏🏿🖤👊🏿👸🏿🤴🏿