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Adjoa Angela Denise Malele posted an update in the group
3 years agoThe Afrikan=Black Woman 3 years ago · I think it would be interesting to continue on our dialogue over a year ago that centered around healing relationships between black women. We tend to be jealous and competitive with one another. One reason I have become more of a ‘loner’ in the last few yrs. These are talks we should continue having in my opinion. @asha_seba
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Yessss! I am so joyful to be a part of this much-needed group. This is my personal reason for dropping out of the lives of my so-called friends/associates. The jealousy and envy between us is sickening! I’ve had BW sabotage me on the job because of wanting petty trinkets and ones who tried to record me saying things that were deemed extreme and racist against yurugu. That’s why I said on a different post that we (BW) need to deal with our demons! We have and are doing damage to each other and our children and men. We need to address this together and heal!!! I hope this group is for US to acknowledge our faults and problems in this, and heal and become better Afrikan women! Our race will not survive without the Upliftment of US. Let’s first deal with our problems and find practical ways to heal and assist our Afrikan-centered men in the survival of all of our lives!
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I don’t deal with any BW outside of work unfortunately other than my mama and some connex here on Abibitumi. I agree lots of healing needs to be done one start is to turn off the tv, but you know some of us black folk can’t go without watching nonsense on tv(white sponsored ‘black’ ‘entertainment OR white shows with with white ppl in them). Anyway, faced the same LOM member, cave beast gatekeepers in some of my own workplace situations, so I can definitely relate.
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Let me also state my own insecurities and euro sickness within. (Just to be clear) I automatically judge a BW or BM on his/her involvement in religion at a zero tolerance scale. As soon as you say Jesus or anything similar I’m done! You don’t stand a chance! Even if we hit it off! (I’m working on me…I promise🙄) I remind myself to be less critical and more loving toward my people but the line is real clear and near to me. It use to make me cringe internally when I heard ebonics! I never understood it. I use to think that English was this amazing language (In all my bat sense and insanity) until I deciphered the trickery, deceit, and wickedness in this sick language. I’ve come a long way baby (but not like the ad for cigarettes). In recapturing my kmtyw mind, these things are made manifest and broken down. I can only thank Nature, My Ancestors and Warrior scholar’s. ❤️🖤💚
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