Black folk even if we talk wrong about each other(which we shouldnt do), what will it take for us to understand never talk negatively about each other around ‘non family.’ Family business, correcting, educating each other is ‘family only.’ Utmost of coonery to talk ill of our own to or around white folk. Almost a dealbreaker for me, but I try… Read more

At my temporary job, this sista who usually wears her hair in it’s ‘natural’ state straightened it. This white lady was going on and on about how it was “soooooooo cute” (psychological warfare). I quickly interjected that her natural hair was very beautiful. White lady was like, “oh yes, her hair isbeautiful like that too.” I was thinking… Read more